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I Freakin’ Love This: the Diaper Bag

October 24, 2011 in Parenthood & Life • Projects & Tips for Babies & Kids • I Freakin' Love This Thing! • I Freakin' Love this Baby Stuff

Warning: this entry is going to be epic. As in, seriously long. My apologies if you have no use for a diaper bag.

When you first have a baby, the mountain of crap you have to take with you everywhere is IN-FREAKING-SANE. Seriously. Half the time my enormous diaper bag was overflowing, and I still didn't have everything I needed!

Now that Charlie is over a year, I don't take the diaper bag everywhere I go - I leave it in the car in case of an "emergency." In the early months, however, you will definitely need a diaper bag with you at all times. Little babies poop approximately every thirty seconds, and that poop has a tendency to get everywhere. Basically, every day is a series of emergencies. ;)

In the beginning, having a very cute diaper bag was super important to me. Later, though, utility took over, and we used the "Diaper Dude" that my parents bought for Y. For every day use with an older baby (when you don't have to carry around a change of clothes, nursing pads, etc), I think putting a smaller pocketbook sized thing in an attractive purse is a better idea. 

First, let's talk about the actual bags. You can get really obsessive about bags, which is a (very) dangerous road. We have four, which I think is one too many. Trust me, this can be a bad habit.

• The first bag I got was this OiOi Messenger Bag (1). I was never totally sold on this diaper bag. I thought it was really cute pre-baby, but it felt a little flimsy.
• Then I bought this Petunia Pickle Bottom diaper bag (2), which I think is VERY cute, but has very small side pockets that won't fit even a thin sippy cup. One major benefit to it is that turns into a backpack, which is great for the airport.
• Eventually, we switched to Y's Diaper Dude (3). It isn't cute at all, but it has all sorts of ingenious little things, like tons of pockets for organizing and a strap that you can snap on and off (so you don't have to pull it over your head).
• I also have this diaper wallet (4) for the essentials (you could also get a diaper pod, or (if you're fancy), a Petunia Picklebottom clutch). This thing is great to carry only what you need in an absolute pinch (ie, a couple of diapers, a diaper cover (if you use gDiapers or cloth, like we do), wipes and a few baggies for dirty dipes. 

For newborns and small babies

Little babies must really enjoy pooping, because they do it all the time. Usually, they like to poop out the sides of their diapers (or up the back), soiling themselves, their outfit, and whatever they were sitting on. It's pretty great. They also like to barf on everything in sight, usually soiling themselves, their outfit, and you. Thus, you need to bring a LOT of crap with you.

• First, I recommend being organized. Have a bunch of little bags (like these drawstring Tote Bags (1)), and keep like items together. I am lucky because my mom is awesomesauce and made me some. 
• Burp cloths are an absolute MUST. Because I like things that people see in public to be pretty, I loved these Aden & Anais burp cloths (2) for the diaper bag. At home we used these thin birdseye diapers, but they are ugly.
• A change of clothes for baby. This means a little bag filled with a new onesie, pair of pants, socks, and a sweater (because you never know if it's gonna get stormy all of a sudden, haha). These are the sorts of things to keep in a drawstring bag.
• An extra shirt for you. One day, you'll thank me. Also, snacks for you (3). Very important.
• Whatever you need to feed the baby, whether that's nursing pads for you, or bottles and formula.
• Extra pacifiers (4) if you use them.
• Diapers, wipes, diaper rash cream, and a changing pad (most diaper bags come with a changing pad) Plus, you need something to put the poopy/wet diapers in. I love these biodegradable trash bags (5).
• A baby blanket. These are good for spreading on the floor at Baby & Me group, or for keeping your little muffin cold in a place with air conditioning. You can also put this over the carseat to block out light. You don't need anything fancy - these these thin blankets will do just fine (5) will do just fine. Or if you are fancy, you could bring an Aden and Anais swaddle wrap (6).
• Wet bag - this is great whether you use cloth diapers or not. When baby barfs on something, you need somewhere to put the dirty clothes. We have this one made by PlanetWise (7), which comes in a three sizes and lots of patterns.
• A couple of toys like this crinkly activity book (8) (see my other post about baby toys for this age group)

For older babies and little toddlers

As your baby gets older, you don't need to take the essentials everywhere you go (because they stop pooping on everything, all the time). We have the "emergency" diaper bag (with a bunch of diapers, wipes, a change of clothes, diaper salve, rags, etc), which we keep in the car. We rarely need everything in there, but its good to have, just in case. We have all that stuff in the Diaper Dude. We also keep some of the items below in the back of the car (in an ugly Drawstring Backpack), because we don't need them ALL the time. In the future, I'll do a post about what baby stuff we keep in what location, which will include a "what's in my diaper bag" show-and-tell. But for now...

Most of the stuff you'll be taking with you relates to food:

• Travel Packs of Disinfecting Wipes(1) are necessary for eating in restaurants or riding in shopping carts. I'm not afraid of germs, but I am TOTALLY grossed out by the crusty, slimy (seriously) highchairs at restaurants. To be honest (and this is a controversial "do you really need it?" item), I got a highchair cover (2) because I got so sick of cleaning highchairs only to be STILL grossed out. I also use the wipes on shopping carts all the time - some stores don't have antibacterial wipes by the carts.
• Along the same lines, if your kid is eating in a restaurant, they can either eat off the table, or they can eat off something like the Tiny Diner (3). This thing has pluses and minuses. It works well on certain kinds of tables, but the suction cups don't work that well on others. plus, the whole thing rolls into that catch-all thing at the bottom (which is great), but C tends to grab the catchall thing and pull the whole Tiny Diner off the table. I think the pluses outweigh the minuses, personally. I really don't like leaving a mess when we go to restaurants. It's not cool to make the server clean up after your kid, I say. Their lives are hard enough!
• Lifefactory Sippy Cup (4) (for water) - we actually keep the sippy cup attachment on the four ounce bottle, just because it's easier to carry around. We recently found just the sippy cup part (they were out of stock for awhile), so you can have extras or convert your existing bottles. 
• Because we (mostly Y) are anal about keeping plastic away from C's food, we bought this stainless steel Eco Lunch Box (5). We also have stainless to-go containers (6) (in addition to a bunch of glass jars we've saved from jam, etc). We take these when we're packing a lunch.
• A lunch pail like our cute owl one from Skip*Hop (7) is a necessity. You need a cooler for all the food (plus one of those frozen thingies to keep it all cool). I also keep a bib and a napkin in the inside pocket. I like the Skip*Hop one because it comes in all different kinds of animals!

But you'll also need a few other things, like entertainment & diaper stuff:

• I suggest taking a diaper wallet or diaper pod (see top image) with you instead of a whole diaper bag. Keep the diaper bag in the car with stuff you don't need as much, and the wallet for the necessary things. The only drawback to these is that they don't fit most cloth diapers. We use compostables when we're out, so I have an extra Little gPant and about three compostable gRefills.
• Sunblock is always good. Make sure it passes the new sunblock tests, though! 
• I keep two toys in my purse that C never gets to play with at home (and rotate them out randomly). She is always very excited to see them. I also keep a bunch of random crap that she's fascinated by - for example, she likes twisting the top back on these Plum organics baby food pouches, so I bring an empty one. Other hits? a hair elastic, an empty Myntz tin (Y is addicted to those, so we have plenty!) and two cheapy metal bracelets (sort of like these, but mine are from H&M). I also have my iPhone, filled up with the best baby apps (<--I updated that post to include screenshots, by the way!). Peekaboo Barn always works. :-)

And thus ends another of my epic "must have" lists (this one new and improved! With pictures!). I hope you find it helpful! Anyone else have any "must have" items for the diaper bag? Or, heck, indulge me: a favorite diaper bag?

What to Buy: Taking Care of Mama

October 5, 2011 in Parenthood & Life • Projects & Tips for Babies & Kids • I Freakin' Love This Thing! • I Freakin' Love this Baby Stuff

There’s a (baby) App for That

July 21, 2011 in Parenthood & Life • I Freakin' Love This Thing! • I Freakin' Love this Baby Stuff

Edited to add: About a month ago, I bought something called the "BubCap " because Charlie WOULD NOT STOP PUSHING THE HOME BUTTON. She would click out of her app, send an email or delete an app (bye bye, Dr. Seuss!) and then cry because she was bored. Not cool. This thing is a rigid sticker that goes over the home button. At first I found it too hard to push, but then I got used to it. Now it's awesome - I can push the home button, but she can't. HIGHLY recommend. Also, I recommend getting the regular one, not the "ultra." Your kid would have to have some SERIOUS thumb strength to need the "ultra."

Baby Connect - $4.99 
Think Itzbeen, but way, way better. This app is amazing for tracking newborn stuff like poops, sleep and feedings. This was my #1 most used app for the first 4-5 months of Charlie's life, and tracking everything became an addiction. This app has an online version, too, so you can add stuff from your computer or your partner can see what's going on while at work. You can also add multiple caregivers, so if your partner or nanny has an iPhone, s/he can track everything too. Honestly, C is almost a year, and I still use it to time her naps. It's easier than using my brain! ;)

Peekaboo Barn - $.99 
C is a monster on the changing table, and no amount of "contraband" (ie, giving the kid stuff they aren't supposed to have so they sit still) will make it easier for me. I LOVE Peekaboo Barn (top). C knows how to work it and laughs at it. Priceless. Note: There are other versions of this app, too. Peekaboo Wild is cool (bottom), but Peekaboo Forest sucks (at least for babies - it's boring). Peekaboo Barn is the clear winner. 

WhiteNoise (by TMSoft)- $1.99
This is the best white noise app - it has 40 different sounds and they're all really well recorded so you can actually HEAR them through the iPhone speakers.

Talking Carl - $.99
This features a weird red square-shaped man who repeats everything you say in a funny voice. The best part of it, though, is that he moves and does different things if you touch him. And because most of baby's touches are accidental, it's good to have something that reacts in interesting ways without a lot of effort.

BabyPiano - (free or paid version)
There are a lot of apps called "baby piano." This is the one with the cat on the icon. I like this app because the piano keys are brightly colored, and there are a couple of different settings.

Baby Rattle - (free or paid version)
This is good for the same reason as Talking Carl (accidental touches) - basically, it's a bunch of weird things floating around, and if you touch anywhere on the screen, something else pops up and makes a noise, then starts floating around too.

Dr. Seuss' ABCs - $3.99 (note: there used to be a free version, but not anymore)
This is an e-book that can be set on "auto-play," "read it to me," or "read it myself." Auto-play is the best option for babies, because they might not know how to swipe to turn the page yet.

BubblePopper - (free or paid)
Popping bubble wrap is fun for everyone, but especially babies.  The paid version of this app is better, because Charlie kept touching the ad at the bottom on the free version. Also, try searching for "bubble wrap" so you get the right one.

And here's a screen shot, so you can see the icon for each one (note: I have Peekaboo Wild on there, but I don't recommend that one. It's boring, at least for a kid C's age).

That's all I've got! Anyone else got something I need to download right this second?

Favorite things: Stuff for older babies

May 19, 2011 in I Freakin' Love This Thing! • I Freakin' Love this Baby Stuff

You can add this stuff to your registry too (we added some of it; other stuff we discovered later), but you won’t use it until your baby is a little bit older.

Toys - Early Months

At some point around the third month, your baby will stop finding the ceiling fan super fascinating and will start to notice other things. That’s when they’ll actually start to play with toys!  These are our favorites:

• Activity Mat - this is one of the first toys we introduced. She liked staring at the different hanging things, and eventually grabbed for them to make the music play. It soon became the place she felt most comfortable experimenting - when she learned to roll over (both directions) she tried it here.  I'm kind of amazed that she loved this until we didn't bring it out anymore.
• Sophie the Giraffe - yes, I know everyone recommends her and she’s super expensive for a toy. But Charlie loves her. She squeaks and is a fun rubbery texture, perfect for chewing on. She loves it so much that we have 2.
• Baby Paper - this was given to us by my cousin Ruth. It’s the most simple thing in the world, but it’s LOUD and Chuck LOVES it (see above).  I don’t know where she found it (probably a local store) - this was the only online retailer where I could find it.
• HABA Happy Quartette blocks - we just bought these, and Charlie LOVES them. The different textures and sounds are really cool. I also love that they're simple.
• Bright Starts Rattle - Good for getting the attention of a smaller baby, and easy for them to hold onto when they are starting to grasp things. Charlie now tries to shove the entire thing in her mouth.
• Angel Dear Monkey Rattle - this thing is wet 24/7: shake, stare, stick in mouth, repeat.
• Bright Starts Lion - For some reason, they don't have this on Amazon and I can't find the lion, only the dog. My friend Kathy gave this to Chuck and it's a #1 favorite!
• Winkel Toy - my mom bought this before Charlie was born, and it’s become one of her favorite toys! It kind of bounces, and those tubes are the perfect size for a baby mouth.
• Stacking cups - I know they look simple, but Charlie LOVES these. They may be her favorite toy. I couldn't bring myself to take them from her when we decided to start eliminating plastic.
• Baby Einstein Take Along Tunes - Before I had Charlie, I swore I wouldn’t have anything in my house that made loud noises with flashy lights (that stuff makes me crazy), but my friend Krista gave Charlie this, and we both love it. Hey, I can admit when I’m wrong! She flips around like crazy on the changing table, and this is the only thing that will keep her on her back long enough for me to get her dressed.
• Car Seat bar - you don’t have to get this one, but an activity bar in the car seat saved our freakin’ sanity. Yes, it has a light and music. Yes, that’s necessary.
• Bright Starts crinkle book - I don’t know what it is about this thing, but Charlie seems to be fascinated by this book and could play with it for hours. This is a set of three.
• Skip Hop Bath Birds - Charlie loves these for bathtime, and they're fun for washing her hair. My only complaint is that she sometimes tries to poke her own eyes out with the beaks, so you have to keep your eye on what she's doing with it.
• Wooden Toys - we are trying to limit the amount of plastic Charlie shoves in her mouth, so we bought a bunch of random wooden toys, which she likes (but none of them are specific favorites enough to list above).

Toys - Later Months

C still plays with most of the toys above, with the exception of the activity mat (when she started pulling up on things, it got kind of dangerous). We've purchased most everything below from Craigslist. Every baby is different, and some of them love the exersaucer while others prefer the jumperoo (or, if they're like C, they hate both). We didn't want to waste money on something she didn't like. This way, we buy something and sell it when she hates it or outgrows it - usually we can sell it for the same price! Gotta love that.

• Jumperoo - I am still sad that Charlie didn't like this, because my friend K's daughter LOVED it. Charlie's main interest is exploring, though, so it's no wonder that she didn't want to be confined. I'm not going to lie, I was slightly relieved to let our friend H borrow it - one less huge plastic apparatus.
• Activity Table - This was a recommendation from our friend Kathy, and OMG Charlie loves it SO MUCH.
• Zany Zoo - If you hate plastic crap as much as I do, you'll love this. It's not chic per say (haha), but it isn't as much of an eye sore as either of the items above!
• Bucket - One of Charlie's favorite activities is taking things out of containers. She likes emptying her bookshelf and dirty laundry. I bought her this bucket to put her toys in because it's rigid enough for her to use it to steady herself.
• Push Toy - Charlie still hasn't mastered this, but I am expecting she'll take off any day. My friend Sarah gave us this, and her daughter loved it! I can't find the one we have, but this is the same concept.

Health Stuff

• Teething is no freakin' joke. If you don't want to be heading to the all-night pharmacy like I did, get a supply of baby tylenol, baby ibuprofen and various homeopathic stuff just in case (not the teething tablets - those have been recalled. Also, sadly, orajel isn't safe either). These teething rings are great too - we throw them in the fridge (we used to throw them in the freezer. Then I learned they can damage the gums. Oops! She liked them. :-/ ). We also have an amber teething necklace, but I'm not sure I believe it works.
• I added this to the last registry, but the Baby Comfy Nose snot sucker is worth repeating. I know it sounds gross to suck the snot out of your kid's nose with your mouth, but there will come a day when you won't think twice about it. And if you need this thing at 3am, you're welcome. ;)

Other Stuff

• Breathable crib bumper - It’s ugly, yes, but when your baby outgrows the bassinet and moves into the crib, you can’t have a regular (read = cute) bumper, because they’re a suffocation hazard. If you don’t have a bumper, you’ve got baby limbs getting stuck 10x a day and the possibility of a hurt appendage. To be honest, it makes more sense to get one of these from the get-go. Just forget about the cute one. I know, you're obsessed with it (I was too), but you'll probably find it's a waste of your hard-earned dough.
• Sleep sacks - if you swaddle your baby, they will eventually outgrow the swaddle, and you'll have to figure out a way to keep your kiddo warm. Blankets are a no-no because of SIDS, so you'll want a "wearable" blanket - AKA a sleep sack.  These Aden & Anais 4-layer sleep sacks are amazing.  They are made from four layers of cotton & allow baby to regulate his/her own temperature. We just bought a couple of the single layer sacks for the summertime. 
• Extra waterproof mattress pad (plus towels) - I know this sounds weird, but I tell you, we used this every day until Charlie started crawling. Babies love to be naked, and they also love to pee. We laid a mattress pad on the floor, covered it with a towel, and let Chuck roll around. If she peed, it got on the towel and not the floor (you need the towel because the pee beads up on the mattress pad).  We invested in a California King size once she became more mobile. Now she crawls off it, but it was great, it really was.
• These Zutano booties are fantabulous. We got ours on diapers.com on sale, but now they're gone (sad face). I want a pair in every color. Little feet get easily cold outside, and socks just aren't enough. These are fleece, and they don't fall off.
• Baby Legs (or Target brand leg warmers). Charlie is a little devil on the changing table, and there have been times where I've had such a hard time getting pants on her that I've just left the house without any. Baby legs keep her legs warm and protect her little knees from rug burns while she's crawling. The only drawback is that they're kind of expensive. We have some from Target, too. They're not as good quality-wise AT ALL, but they're like, $3. You can't really beat $3. Tip: Become a "fan" of Baby Legs on Facebook - they have TONS of discounts on their website, and you can get them for a lot less. Also check out retailmenot.com before you buy anything.
• Big kid car seat - I recommend registering for this, because you will definitely need it. C doesn't need this yet, but this is the one we're getting - it's top rated from Consumer Reports and half the price of the Britax Boulevard that everyone loves (thanks Sarah!)

And that's all I've got! Anyone have anything else to add (note: I'm going to do a separate post on baby proofing)?

Favorite Things: What to Add to your Baby Registry

November 29, 2010 in I Freakin' Love This Thing! • I Freakin' Love this Baby Stuff

A thought occurred to me the other day that made me feel really stupid.  I haven’t been updating you guys with my latest projects because it takes a lot of time and effort to photograph each project.  I have a big pile of projects to photograph and not enough time to blog, let alone take the photos.  As I was laying in bed one night, I thought to myself, “why not just post the drawings, not the finished projects?”  After all, you guys can use your imagination - it’s not that hard to picture a drawing on a one-sided flat card.  ;)  So you’ll be seeing more of my drawings in the future, including some that I did a very long time ago and still haven't photographed!

In the meantime, I want to share a monster “favorite things” post, full of the items I registered for and love for the baby.  A good friend of mine is pregnant and will need to register soon, and I thought to myself, “I need to get this post together before her child goes to college.”  So here you have it: the stuff you need and really want, the stuff you need but don’t want to spend money on, and the stuff I spent money on and don’t need.

But before I begin, here are a few things I didn’t know before Charlie was born:

• My baby was apparently VERY small at 6 lbs 5oz. “newborn” size clothes did NOT fit her.  The only clothes that would actually fit her were “preemie” in most brands, or the newborn size in Gerber and Carter’s.  If your kid isn’t born at 8+ pounds, they won’t fit into most newborn clothes.  So if you anticipate having a small baby, you might want to get a few tiny onesies.
• You have to keep your baby warm in the first couple of weeks because they can’t regulate their own temperature.  As a result, you’ll need:
  • Hats that fit a tiny head!  All of the hats we were given were too big.
  • Long-sleeved onesies. Short-sleeved onesies are cute, but generally pointless.

Okay, now on to the products we registered for or bought that I can’t do without, plus some tips on crap you might be told you need, but you shouldn’t buy.  This is in addition to the general stuff like a car seat system and a baby bath, which are totally up to your personal preference (although I do like mine).

Nursing:

• My Brest Friend. Far superior to Boppy because it’s more like a soft table. She doesn’t roll off it and it provides a lot of support. Also make sure to get a spare cover. As my friend K says, “because poop and spit-up happen.”  Charlie likes to hang out on the Brest Friend and chat.  Plus, it’s great for napping.
• Baby Connect app for iPhone and iPad. I use this item more than anything else. It’s $4.99 and worth every cent and more - you can track every part of baby’s day, plus their growth and other important stuff.
• Tender care lanolin. You’ll want this in the early days of breastfeeding when your nipples are tender.  The other stuff (regular lanolin) is so thick it hurts to put on.
• Mistake: the Itzbeen. We’re using Baby Connect instead.  I don’t care how long it’s been since I changed her diaper! I want to know how many poops and pees she’s had today, and so does her doctor. I used it for a nightlight to check on her until I realized I could use my iPhone for that, too.
• Mistake: breast pump. You might not actually need/want to pump, or you might be one of many women who have a hard time breastfeeding and switch to formula - you never know. I didn’t buy this, but would regret it if I did. It’s a lot of money; I’d recommend renting one from your hospital until you know if you want to invest in it.  Also, people don’t buy this off of your registry (who wants to buy that?!), so you’d have to shell out the dough for it anyway.

Keeping Baby Quiet:

• Wubbanub.  Initially I would have said “pacifier,” but the Wubbanub is a pacifier on steroids as far as the fuss-factor goes.  Basically, it’s the pacifier attached to a little stuffed animal.  You can prop the stuffed animal in such a way that the pacifier doesn’t keep falling out.  When your baby is a few weeks old and is able to hold onto things a bit better, the stuffed animal is the perfect size for them to hold onto. Charlie has the giraffe, but there are all sorts of animals.  If you’re not using the soothie pacifier, try Paci Plushies, which are compatible with different types of pacifiers.  I’d also recommend getting a few regular Soothie pacifiers (they gave us one at the hospital and it’s the only kind she’ll take), which are good for situations where the Wubbanub is too bulky (like when you’re wearing her).

• A swing that goes front to back and side to side. Charlie hated the swing in the first couple of weeks, but soon started to spend a significant amount of time napping in it.  Now she sleeps in it.  We got the “Nature’s Touch” swing, but any Fisher-Price swing has the dual-swinging function.  Bonus if it plugs in instead of relying on batteries, but DEFINITELY get one with a “papasan” chair.  They’re more padded and comfy than the regular chair.
• Exercise ball - used it to bounce her up and down to calm her.  This is one of those things that was necessary to get us through the first month, and then took up space. Bonus if you actually have the gumption to use it for exercise after you’re done using it for baby.  I personally gave mine to my father-in-law.
• Colic Calm (this brand SPECIFICALLY, sold at CVS if you’re in a pinch). K’s husband referred to this as “Jesus Christ in a bottle.”  It has charcoal in it which is a MIRACLE for settling a gassy tummy.  Charlie is a colicky baby and has a lot of tummy troubles, and this stuff has helped immensely.
• Little Tummies - Charlie had such bad gas!  We were told to give her a dose 30 minutes after each meal to break up the bubbles.
• Happiest Baby on the Block DVD - Screw the book, who feels like reading at a time like this?! The best things for Charlie were putting her on her side and swinging.

Dealing with Poop and Spitup:

• Cooshee changing pad. I bought this myself after Charlie peed all over our changing pad cover for the 8,675th time.  It’s expensive for a changing pad ($60) but is one of my favorite things and is totally worth the price.  Cleaning stuff up is easy peasy.

• Reusable wipes. So easy, not gross at all, and saves a ton of money/waste.  We use gerber washcloths (note - these are different than our fancy bathtime washcloths so they don’t get mixed up) and a squirt bottle filled with a mixture of water, a couple of drops of tea tree oil, baby shampoo and almond oil.  I bought three packs of 12 washcloths in a variety of colors.
• Birdseye foldable diapers. These are not diapers (seriously, who thought these were good diapers?) but make great burp cloths.

• Mistake: buying cloth diapers too soon. You never know the body type of the babe. We use gDiapers now and I love them.  The all-in-ones I bought are in the closet.  Shoot.
• Mistake: diaper wipe warmer. This was a must-have in the very beginning (and probably for longer if your baby is born in the winter months) but now we’re using reusable wipes and can’t use it.  Plus, Charlie is now less of a wimp when it comes to cold.

Misc Baby Items:

• Edited to add: BabyComfyNose Nasal Aspirator. The blue bulbs they give you to suck out snot at the hospital are WORTHLESS.  This thing is amazing. I know what you're thinking - EW. You have to suck snot out of your baby's nose?! But yes, you do. And this one is powered by your mouth instead of your hand, so it sucks a lot more. Don't worry, no boogies get anywhere near your mouth.
• Hooded towel and washcloths. This hooded towel is a splurge (a gift from my parents with matching washcloths) but one of my favorite things.
• Snap ‘n go stroller - lightweight and easy to deal with. Not cute or fun, but so, so useful - that car seat is heavy!  I use it every day and is one of the best items we have.
• Mistake: huge stroller/car seat system.  I know people who have the Chicco system and felt like the stroller part was too big and bulky. If you want a stroller, get one later when the baby is old enough to use it without the car seat and you know what your needs are.  I bought the uppababy vista with a carseat attachment. I like the stroller, but rarely use it. It’s too heavy for using with the car seat, and kind of bulky for shopping in the little stores in our neighborhood. It’s really good for walks around the lake or in the park, but I usually take her in the Ergo baby carrier because I don’t feel like dealing with a stroller. If I had it to do again, I’d just get the Snap ‘n go stroller in the beginning.  I know that I'll probably want a stroller when she's heavy, so I'm planning to get another stroller later, once I figure out where I'll be using it (ie, shopping, hikes, etc).
• Tiny socks. We have thick white ones for inside her PJs at night-time, and three sets of Trumpette socks for daytime. No outfit is complete with out a pair of socks that look like shoes, I say.
• Little mitts so they don’t scratch their faces before you clip their nails. The First Years make the best ones - they don’t fall off.
• Receiving/swaddle blankets. We don’t swaddle Charlie (she hated it after the first couple of weeks) but use them to keep her toasty in her carseat, swing, bassinet, etc.  If you do swaddle, I’ve heard good things about Aden & Anais swaddling blankets.
• Moby wrap or Baby K’tan AND ergo baby carrier (withOUT the heart2heart insert). Charlie fell asleep immediately in the moby wrap, and it’s great for use at home.  She hated it for awhile but doesn’t mind it now that her legs can hang out the bottom.  Baby K’tan is the “Moby Wrap for Dummies” according to my friend Sarah. The Ergo is easier on my back if we’re going for a walk. We didn’t have much luck with the heart2heart insert - it’s very thick, so Charlie got really hot. The gals in my Baby & Me group recommended shoving a rolled up receiving blanket under her butt instead, and that worked fine.
• Tuffo outdoor blanket.  This thing is awesome for taking to the park and laying on the grass.  One side is soft, and the other side is waterproof.  It folds into a nice thing with handles. Love.

Sleeping Stuff:

• the First Years swaddle blanket. This is the only one small enough to use on her in the early weeks. Like I mentioned earlier, if you’re going to swaddle after that, I’ve heard great things about the Aden & Anais swaddling blankets.

• iPod and speakers. We downloaded white noise like vaccuum and hair dryer, then leave it on all night.  This helps with a routine to teach her the difference between night and day.
• Bassinet. She spent every night in this before we started sticking her in the swing (she seems to have problems with reflux while laying flat). Another thing that’s not very cute, but so, so useful.  We’re going to switch to a co-sleeper soon (she outgrew the bassinet), then move her to her crib.  You could start out with a co-sleeper and skip the bassinet all together if you want.
• Long-sleeved onesies in newborn and 0-3 months. Gerber and Carter’s are best.  These are great for jammies underneath the swaddling blanket.
• Sleep sacks. I absolutely love these from Swaddle Designs. Toasty and so, so soft.  It took her awhile to grow into these, but now she sleeps in them every night.
• Video Monitor - We love watching her on this thing and it’s nice to see what she’s doing to know if she needs assistance. I am really thankful that we got the video monitor, not just a regular monitor.

Other thoughts:

• The single most helpful thing to this day is that my mother-in-law takes our laundry, does it at her house, and brings it back clean and folded.  I never take this for granted as it makes my life SO MUCH EASIER.  I wash the baby stuff myself because it needs to be done so often and doesn’t wrinkle, so it’s way easier. If you can send your laundry out to a wash n’ fold or have a very generous family member take care of it, DO IT.
• If you can stand to cook while you're pregnant, making meals ahead of time and freezing them is totally helpful.  I didn't do this (cooking made me nauseous), but I wish I had.

Okay, I think that’s it!  Anyone got anything else to add?